No I don't feel judged and our extended family is mixed. Some of the boys are circumcised (poor dears) and some aren't. I was talking at the family picnic about how shocking it was to see my son pulling on his penis as a baby because that thing reeeeally stretches! Some got it and some didn't. It was no big deal.
I secretly feel badly for the boys who got changed but it's like anything else. It's so entrenched in this culture that it will take time and effort to make people see the forest through the trees.
Danielle, Nick, Gigi ('08) and William (7/11)