Re: First time with an OB...Normal?
I would be running far, far away from that DR. I don't think anyone can force you to submit to tests that you don't want. I would either shop for another DR or do an unassisted homebirth again.
Daughter of the Risen King, Loving wife to Joe, Homeschooling mom to A- '01, M- '05 and E '08 and my 17 weeker E 7/25/11
optimistically expecting a RAINBOW in March