11-20-2012, 03:12 PM
Formerly: New cloth lover
Join Date: Jan 2012
Re: DH watches kid like grandparent
Hahahahahaha!!! So funny!
Originally Posted by SaraElise
Funny story, I teach ballet on the weekends, and am gone from 9-1:30 so the kids are always with DH during that time.
One weekend as I was getting ready to leave I said to my 5 year old "Alright, be good for daddy, doesn't he do a great job taking care of you?" and my 5 year old said "well, not really, one time he forgot to feed us lunch" lol Meaning that they ate 1:30 that week instead of 12:30. He's really hanging on to that one slip up though!
I told my 5 year old if he was old enough to realize he hadn't had lunch at lunch time, he is old enough to tell daddy he is hungry
My husband was pretty bad about not interacting with the kids while I was gone. He didn't start doing it until he went back to school (he's also active duty military). So basically, when I left the TV came on and stayed on until I got home. He'd feed them, but it was normally something like peanut butter and fruit snacks for dinner. During dinner the kids would be at the table watching TV and my husband was on the iPad/phone looking up news reports or doing homework. It was not uncommon for me to come home and at least one of the kids was in time out or crying. When I asked what was going on, I got the same response every time. "I don't know what's wrong with them, they're just in a bad mood." Then I asked what he did with them and I got, "Oh, we watched TV, ate lunch/dinner...." And all I'm thinking is, "Oh, OK. So you just played on the iPad the entire time I was gone!" The most frustrating part is that he really seemed to be clueless! I've gone as far as taking the iPad with me when I leave. That seemed to get it across (in a not so nice way). I hate knowing I'm coming home to a mess at least, possibly a houseful of grumps. When it got really bad, I left him a chore list and told him if the kids were not decently happy when I got home I was doing the same thing again the next day. I had to make him man-up. I told him, "They are your kids! You had just as much fun making them as I did, you need to have fun taking care of them." I hate that Dad's are sometimes considered "babysitters".
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