[cdeweese]

Originally Posted by twinmomstl This it's why I am torn... I totally agree with you as well

I would absolutely allow them to have other gifts, but not the ones they opened. I know it would be disappointing to have something picked out for them only to return it. Maybe as a sort of compromise, you could think of a way for them to earn those gifts back. They could tell Santa what they did or have them do some other sort of unpleasant task.