Re: confused about how to phrase invitations....
Can you make it VIP only invitations?
"so and so" is invited to a VIP event in honor of "your dd's name here"'s birthday!
I think worded that way it makes the invited child feel special and that should be the intention. She is inviting peers, her age, I would not have an issue with that.
ETA: you can add something like: "We are keeping this a small gathering due to the arrival of our lo, thank you for your understanding!"
Last edited by Resellmybelle; 11-24-2012 at 08:47 PM.