Re: Living together before marriage. Yay or nay?
OP how are you doing? Have you made a decision about your living arrangement?
From where you were in your last post I'd say giving the relationship some more time to build trust between you would be a good idea, as well as maybe a trial week of living together.
I don't really think that living together or apart would make or break your relationship. But fear very well can be a wedge that keeps people from truly experiencing unconditional love. So that imo would be the priority. Maybe going to couseling together to get everything from the past out in the open, share what has happened and overcome the fear of the same things happening between you two.
How far along are you now?