Re: The official "it's a" thread!
Yup. I feel you. I'm glad that the baby can't hear my thoughts. I will NEVER tell him how I felt... because the bottom line is, I won't feel this way once he gets here. All of those feelings will go away when I see and hold him for the first time, and I know it... if not before then! I'm still feeling pretty detached because I haven't felt him REALLY move yet. Which scares me, and also keeps me from feeling "close."
Originally Posted by iwiamandaiwi
I am in EXACTLY the same boat as you. I depserately want to experience raising a daughter and it is hard not to feel bad if it turns out to be a boy. No matter how much you know you are still going to love your baby either way it is hard not to feel guilty.
Ashley, wife to J, and mama to my four amazing boys!
B (10/01), N (3/07), I (3/08),
and S (5/1/13)