Re: Sleep training
Have you tried using a baby carrier and could your daycare provider use one as well? My mom had a baby that needed to be held constant (he had some other problems too like bad reflux, etc). I gave her a ring sling and showed her how to use it with the baby and it made a world of difference. Yes she was still "holding" the baby, but atleast he wasn't crying and she had free hands.
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