We dont give gifts to anyone but our kids. We have 7 and buying for them is enough stress.
I do get my mom something small and his parents usually get a harry and david box for $25.00
I only have once nephew and one niece and my SIL ruined our relationship so we don exchange gifts anymore.
Katie, mom to Olivia (97), Veda (98), Franky (2004), Wendy (2005), JoHannah (2007), Thea (2009) and Sunny (2011)