Have not read all the replies yet.
We keep a dry house. Dh has struggled and TBH I just don't really care to drink.
Both DH and I have addictions issues with our families and Dh has struggled.
He has been sober for 3 years or so now I think.
I don't necessarily see the harm in the odd beer or glass of wine.
It does bother me personally to have kids witness it as part of everyday life.