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Originally Posted by Heather8183 Gift it to her from you, save yourself the money

Originally Posted by syfitz Return one to the store and get dd something else "from" the relative. If I was super excited about giving a specific item to dd, I wouldn't let the relative steal my thunder, but would get dd another item I thought she'd like as a gift from them.

I agree with both of this. Return yours if you can't return your relatives gift, and buy another one. Your relative might not know what to buy and just bought the same because she/he have known that is what your daughter will surely like it.