Re: Official names?
We don't announce IRL, not because of name stealing, but because we announced ds1's name prior to birth and EVERYONE knew it before he was born, most who we did not tell. The magic of announcing his arrival and name was gone when he was born. So we kept ds2's name a secret until his birth, and this one as well.
Happily Married Momma to my two Bambinos & Bambina