DH is really good at getting away with whatever he can. He was 30 when he met, and was perfectly capable of keeping house, doing laundry, etc. When we started dating, I though it was cute and helpful to do some of those things for him. It's gotten worse over the years. He knows if he leaves trash on the counter, it will drive me nuts and I'll pick it up for him. He knows if he waits until Sunday night to mention that he needs work clothes washed, I'll stay up and wash them. OTOH, he's finally learning how to multitask. He used to have that fear of leaving the kids in one room to do a task in another. In the last six or so months, he's started doing dishes and vacuuming on Saturday mornings while I work.
Hi! I'm Shannon
Wife to J
Mama to a couple of crazy boys - L (12/07)
and E (2/11)