Re: Would your DH/SO go to the hospital?
If he was home, I'd prefer that he go, since he's the one with medical training. When one of our kids was admitted for pneumonia he stayed with her to keep an eye on her medical care.
When my other dd broke her arm, I took her in and dh met me there because he was at work, but he couldn't take off for her ortho appts. He's super involved with everything, though.
Wife to my Navy doc, SAHM to 4 (11, 8, 5, 1)