Re: Would your DH/SO go to the hospital?
If he was home, I'd prefer that he go, since he's the one with medical training. When one of our kids was admitted for pneumonia he stayed with her to keep an eye on her medical care.
When my other dd broke her arm, I took her in and dh met me there because he was at work, but he couldn't take off for her ortho appts. He's super involved with everything, though.
"There are places I remember, all my life, though some have changed. Some forever not for better. Some have gone and some remain. All these places have their moments with lovers and friends I still can recall. Some are dead and some are living. In my life I've loved them all." John Lennon ~For my dad, whom I will miss dearly.