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Old 01-25-2013, 11:30 AM   #174
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Originally Posted by mibarra View Post

Stuff gets done in my house too. There are definitely times when one has to 'suck it up' and do it. BUT, if you really have someone just straight up not pulling their weight, nothing ever changes if you keep doing it for them. Sometimes the mature/responsible thing to do is stop taking care of everything for other people and force them to take responsibility for themselves. Clearly you handle things differently in your marriage, and that's fine. But you're coming off awfully judgmental and rude about people who do things differently, whether it's intentional or not.
^^ this!
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