Re: daycare misgivings
How much longer is your degree program? At two days a week and for significant monetary savings I could handle these issues for up to another year. I detest smoking, but if I knew my child really wasn't being smoked around then I could tolerate the smell. I don't think the bad thing is terrible, its not great, but not terrible either. If you can find a situation you are more comfortable then I absolutely would. I would also try to schedule a visit to the ladies house on an off day. If anything tips off your mommy radar even more then you can make a better informed decision.
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Mother to Amelia (12.06), Charlotte (11.08), and Clark (3.11), with #4 arriving in June!