Re: daycare misgivings
If my child smelled like cigarette smoke I'd report the provider to whomever licenses her ASAP. I'm not aware of any place that allows a provider to take smoke breaks and leave the children unattended. The bad thing could have been from the other children (my DD says, "Look I not bad anymore!" And we NEVER tell her she's bad. She also doesn't attend any childcare). The diaper rash could be from her not changing often enough and I would speak with her about that.