Re: daycare misgivings
smoking alone would be a deal breaker, no amount of savings is worth that to me. Id probably report her to the state too.
I would find alternative care right away, perhaps you can pay a retired person or student to come to your home and watch your daughter, while you look for another daycare
Mom to boys
DS1 (07/10) DS2 (10/11) DS3 (03/13)