Thank you and to everyone who didn't make me feel like a big pile of poo for asking and explaining perfectly legit concern. I truly appreciate the advice!
Originally Posted by Mom23kids
In the op you didn't state she was doing it in front of people. In that case I would try to discretely divert her attention and not make a big deal about it. If she throws a tantrum, be firm and don't pay too much attention to it. Explain simply that this is not the time to do that. I feel bringing in the "ladies don't do that" part is unnecessary and may be harmful and cause shame in the future about sex. JMO.
Semi-Crunchy Hippie Lover to
My Hunting Hubby Nathaniel (11/14/2009)
SAHM to Evening Lucille
(6/30/10) and Lachlan James