Re: After 3 months...ready to give up...
It's okay to take a break from cloth until the refulx settles down if that's what you want to do. I was hard core cloth with my first 2, but with DS2 things got crazy. I was so stressed and took a break. I bought a big box of sposies from Sams and used those for awhile. I took about a month off, then came back to cloth. At the beginning of my cloth break, I actually considered selling all of it and quitting forever but I'm glad I didn't.
On a different note, Applecheeks are soft. You might like them. I also like Flips (I know you said AIO) but work well on my chunky boy Hang in there mama and do what you need to for your sweet baby.
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