[Docs Wife]

Originally Posted by mmeneely Call someone over. Many one would be happy to help you out and I bet they would even turn the kettle on for when you are done

I am not the OP but I am a former military spouse. My guess is the OP is either at a new base and doesn't have a support system built up yet or as a lot of other military spouses she had learned to be very independent and isn't used to asking for help.