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Old 02-03-2013, 08:57 AM   #20
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Hello- I had a few people refer me to this thread- hopefully it is the right spot for me.

I am due July 21st with a boy. This pregnancy started out with twins and we lost Baby A around 13 weeks. Generally I am doing well and focusing on the positive- having a healthy baby boy! Yesterday I had a surprise cry at my ultrasound appointment when the Dr. showed me Baby A. I think she did it to try to make me feel better, but oops- it certainly stirred up emotions. She told me that Baby A is shrinking and will be absorbed in my body soon and will be "obliterated." I'm sure she didn't think of what that word would mean to me, but the whole thing was so sad. I had difficulty then going on with the rest of the ultrasound.

So here I am- experiencing a loss and a pregnancy all at once. The mix of emotions are so unusual...
Rebecca, I hate that you're here but this is a wonderful group. I'm so sorry your u/s was such a crappy experience & "obliterated"? Really?!? Who says that in relation to a pregnancy loss?! How awful! Praying God's grace for you through the rest of this pregnancy.
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