I always refuse the pap at my 10-12 week appointment and at the 6 week PP apt. I just tell them that I'm up to date on my pap and I'd prefer to follow up with my family doctor on that. This pregnancy, they requested an extra urine test to test for some STI (chlamydia maybe?) and had me sign a release to get the results of my most recent pap from my family doctor. It wasn't a big deal at all.
Amy- SAHM, tandem nursing, co-sleeping, cloth diapering, carseat checkin' mama to Peter (4.20.08), Jasper (4.25.11), and Ruby (4.11.13). Wife to Chris