Re: Considering not circumcising. No judgments please.
Absolutely not a bit a judgement here from me. I am a mama to 4 intact boys (my DH is circ'd though), but I do truly respect it being done for religious reasons. I would suggest that you pray on it and you and your DH come to a decision together. We personally chose not to have our boys circumcised because we are not Jewish and didn't have any specific good reasons to do it, so it felt like the right choice. It sounds like you have other things on your plate (like thinking about the cleft palate surgery), so maybe give it some time and prayer?