[Nerissa]

Bascially it is your child and you can do what you wish. I think she definalty does deserve and explination of why you feel that way.

Maybe I am way more laid back but I really don't see what the big deal is. Is MIL leaving your kids with him for hours or is it really just 15-20 min to go to the store.

Have you met the guy--you say he is a nice guy, what part about him makes you think he is a child molester. Just because he doesnt' have kids doesn't mean he doesn't know how to handle them.

My future BIL is awsome with kids. He has a million nieces and nephews but no kids of his own.

Just because you think your daughter is a dream to take to the store doesnt mean MIL does.