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Originally Posted by luvsviola My experience is that caseworkers come back with "I told her that she needed to XYZ and she didn't do it" in court when sometimes things were said in passing as suggestions and a big deal wasn't made of them, and then it is used against the parents later.

That is just wrong. If it isn't in writing with no evidence they said anything how is it even legally accepted in court?