Re: Birthday Party WWYD
Here most people understand about the cash flow thing. It is perfectly normal to ask someone to join you for a birthday party and ask them to foot their own bill. People are usually shocked when the bill is paid by the host.
If you in laws get pernickity, let them. Its rude to want to go somewhere and then expect someone else to foot the bill.
Banned for 6 months for ignoring repeated request to be polite/respectful.