With DS, I never gave him a pacifier. But I also let him nap while nursing for the first 6 months of his life. This was fine with me, and all went well. (Ok, not entirely true, as he would sleep no other way and now at 21 month is still a terrible sleeper.)
Anyway, DS will be 25 months when DD comes along and is still very high needs. Letting her nurse for 2 hrs straight while napping is not realistic. So, I think I want to introduce a pacifier this time and see if I can get her to sleep on her own.
Any advice about how to do this without it causing BF issues? How/when did you introduce? I even welcome DON'T DO IT comments.