[ktmelody]

Originally Posted by luvsviola Yet the wife has to consent if the man wants a vasectomy. Such a strange double standard.

I didn't have to consent to my husbands vasectomy.

Any ways there is too many unknowns.

I named my first daughter without the help of her father, he refused to sign the birth certificate so I refused to give him any control in what was done with her.

He relinquished his rights after admitting paternity and she was adopted by my husband.

If she had been a boy she would not have been circed and I wouldn't have asked for his opinion. (We split up when I was still pregnant with her)

Had my husband wanted to circ when ds was born I would have refused and never let my son out of my sight. Thankfully we were both on the same page prior to him being born.