[wifey09]

I would rinse before you soak, if you soak. I would drop the soak completely. My advice is similar to pps but I would:
run cold wash/rinse no detergent
wash warm with tide
go to bed
rinse again
hang to dry
20 min in dryer to soften
and I wash every night
and use open dry pail you're creating a smell by keeping it closed