My mom is trying to take over my birthing!
I am 21 and this is my first baby. My mom is very strong willed and I really like the idea of her being there as a back up advocate incase me and DH miss something but I really feel she is trying to be my one and only advocate and wants to be my birthing partner. She is trying to push DH to the back burner. How do I nicely tell her that she is making me uncomfortable ? I know she is just excited and wants to help but this is me and DHs pregnancy and birthing and I need her to just step back.