Re: Carrier Clueless - good place to start?
Maybe look into the ergo. Your dh could use it as well and it is great for kids as they grow. I have also heard great things about the beco and kinderpack (I think it is called that). I have the ktan right now but my LO is only 14lbs. I plan to get the ergo next since there are extenders which would make it possible for DH to wear.