Tots Bots EasyFit, Freetime, Thirsties Duo AIO, GroVia hybrid, Best Bottoms, SoftBums -- those all sound like what you're looking for. Tots Bots has the sturdiest h&l of them all, I'd say.
Laura, mom to ds "Big D" (1.09), dd "Azalea" (10.10), and twin girls M and B (3.13)! Wife to my favorite. Cloth diaper industry geek. Birth geek. Church geek.