You might want to talk to whomever is doing your shower. Let her know your concerns and see if she can focus your gift-givers. People don't know what you need, and you don't need a singing doll or 10 bottles of crappy lotion.
Maybe some people can get together and get your car seat? We got our seat from family.
Best of luck. Just don't believe all those stupid lists telling you what u "need" , I'm sure you know its silly and just to get your money!
I'm one happy and hopeful, crazy mom and wife to the best DH ever.
ever-moving, always-stubborn, my sweet pea, born 8/09.
Coming in November:
A new baby!!
ISO: NB covers/fitteds, flats, wool, 'big sister' stuff for a 4YO girl.