We want one more, can't conceive naturally, endured six failed ivf cycles, and are now grappling with whether one more ivf cycle is worth trying or not. We may foster/adopt in the future, but won't do so out of birth order, so we'd wait until ds2 is older. We don't feel done; we feel our family is incomplete, so we feel kind of stuck in limbo. I would expect to feel done at some point, but its been 6 months since our last failed cycle, and I don't feel any more done than when we started our first cycle.
SAHD to J 12.27.05, M 12.27.08, and A 2.15.11.