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Old 02-09-2013, 09:26 AM   #1
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"I'm too tired"

DS1 (5 yo) goes through phases of being "too tired" to do anything and it makes me crazy. This morning he wanted a toy that was about 5 steps away and tried to get his brother (2 yo) to get it for him. He was getting irritated that DS2 couldn't find it. I told him he should grab it himself because his brother didn't even know what it was. He told me he was too tired to go get it himself. I told him that if he was too tired to grab a toy 5 steps away that maybe he needed to go back to bed.

"Too tired" is his excuse for everything lately and I don't know what to do about it. He can't eat dinner because he's too tired. He can't tidy his room because he's too tired. It's just an excuse, because 30 seconds later, something interests him and he's off playing. Yesterday, I offered him lunch and he turned it down. Then it was time to tidy his room and he said he couldn't do it because I hadn't fed him so he didn't have energy.

If I hear that he's "too tired" to do anything again today, I'm going to lose my ever loving mind! I think my new plan of attack is going to be sending him to bed every time he's "tired". I don't know what else to do and I'm so sick of the attitude that goes along with it.
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One of mine went through this phase. When he was too tired was brought up I immediately took away what he wanted and said "oh, ok none of this then since your too tired." and I'd tell him to go take a nap. Sometimes there would be a tantrum but I'd act oblivious to it. Eventually... 15 mins later or so he'd come sauntering out of his room saying he was better but wouldn't be allowed to do anything else before the first task was finished.

Now with the food thing I'd tell him he can eat or nap. If he was too tired to clean better nap, eat then clean and you have no other choices. I just stayed calm and acted very serious like oh you must really be tired, lets sleep! That always bugged him. lol I just wouldn't let him get away with anything. He eventually got tired of it and wasn't getting any help or attention for it so he stopped. Honestly, to me it sounds like your doing what I did. It does go away... I promise!
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One of mine went through this phase. When he was too tired was brought up I immediately took away what he wanted and said "oh, ok none of this then since your too tired." and I'd tell him to go take a nap. Sometimes there would be a tantrum but I'd act oblivious to it. Eventually... 15 mins later or so he'd come sauntering out of his room saying he was better but wouldn't be allowed to do anything else before the first task was finished.

Now with the food thing I'd tell him he can eat or nap. If he was too tired to clean better nap, eat then clean and you have no other choices. I just stayed calm and acted very serious like oh you must really be tired, lets sleep! That always bugged him. lol I just wouldn't let him get away with anything. He eventually got tired of it and wasn't getting any help or attention for it so he stopped. Honestly, to me it sounds like your doing what I did. It does go away... I promise!
This is what I do. It does work for my 4y/o DS.

But my 6 y/o is not upset by being sent to her room anymore. She has added an extra sass and a loud, screeching whine with the phrase, complete with a foot stomp or two.

So now I just immediately punish her for it. I can handle a little whining and protesting, but when she whips out that attitude, I don't put up with it.
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This is what I do. It does work for my 4y/o DS.

But my 6 y/o is not upset by being sent to her room anymore. She has added an extra sass and a loud, screeching whine with the phrase, complete with a foot stomp or two.

So now I just immediately punish her for it. I can handle a little whining and protesting, but when she whips out that attitude, I don't put up with it.
It's the attitude here that drives me up the wall.
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My four year old says this too. I tell her if she is too tired she can go to bed. Usually she changes her min about being too tired. When it comes to getting a toy then thats just tough luck. I think by 5 you could tell your LO that if he says that he will have to sit or lay in his bed for 10 minutes.
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Re: "I'm too tired"

my 4 year old (5 next month) goes through the same thing. when he gets bored, he's "tired." when he doesn't want to clean, he's "tired," when he doesn't want to eat anymore, he's "tired."

it drives me bonkers, to say the least.
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My 4 year old says the same thing. He doesn't get his way though. I still insist he do as I asked.

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My kids had that phase. When they said that they were tired, they were made to take a nap for at least 5 minutes. Once in a while they'd fall asleep, probably from boredom, but most of the time they'd come back out and be 'refreshed'. I try to keep natural consequence, to being tired means you nap and being bored means you get assigned chores/something to do.
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My kids had that phase. When they said that they were tired, they were made to take a nap for at least 5 minutes. Once in a while they'd fall asleep, probably from boredom, but most of the time they'd come back out and be 'refreshed'. I try to keep natural consequence, to being tired means you nap and being bored means you get assigned chores/something to do.
This is exactly what we do and it worked like a charm. I no longer hear that whine "I'm so booooored!" because he knows it means sweeping or folding laundry.

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DD is 5 and doing this right now too. I just tell her if she is that tired she needs to go to bed. She usually stops complaining and does whatever she is suppose to do. If she is suppose to be cleaning her room is the only time she will actually get into bed, but she can't come out of her room until its cleaned so she doesn't stay in bed too long before she realizes "to tired" isn't getting her out of cleaning her room.
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