Diaper Swappers

GC's Mama · 06-08-2011, 06:56 PM

Okay, so my 1st pregnancy, I found a tiny bump on my labia some time in the 3rd trimester. Turns out it was a varicise vein, no big deal, super tiny, midwives said not to worry.

2nd pregnancy, that area started feeling tender, and out popped a (slightly bigger than the last time) little one at 10 weeks. Didn't bug me all that much, both times it went away right after delivery.

Fast forward to this pregnancy: I tried working out sooner, not spending a lot of time just standing on my feet, have been doing a lot of moderate exercise, laying on my left side. I managed to stave it off until 12 weeks, and this time it looks huge! Like a tiny cluster of peas or something. It doesn't hurt much, but I'm super self conscious about it (God bless DH for pretending not to see it when we DTD). I'm also kind of afraid to even let myself have an org*** when we "do it" because if I do, that lip swells up and skeeves me out.

My midwives say they're really common and that a lot of women get them and don't even know it b/c they never look in that area. But I just wonder....

Has this been a problem for anyone? And if it has, and you have more than one kid, has it been worse in subsequent pregnancies? Need some reassurance over here.

jackyl08 · 06-08-2011, 07:03 PM

Me! It hurts so, so, so bad! Like throbbing pain. I have just dealt with it by sitting on a heating pad, staying off my feet and when it gets really bad, taking some Tylenol. It's awful, but hopefully it will go away with delivery.

janabell · 06-08-2011, 07:07 PM

OMG! I almost freaked when I saw mine down there. I have no idea when it popped up but its exactly as you described a cluster of peas. It doesnt hurt but its freaky! I hope it goes away! Just know you are not alone!

ltlmrs · 06-08-2011, 07:16 PM

Homeopathic remedy Hamamelis Virginiana (http://www.luckyvitamin.com/1/1/3715...0-pellets.html).

Take every two hours until symptoms start to lessen. It may worsen before getting better, but after a few days you should definitely start having less swelling. If symptoms come back, start taking it again.

Note: this might not make them disappear entirely, but it will help a great deal.

PM me for more info if you like.

mel281 · 06-08-2011, 08:05 PM

I didn't notice any problems with my first PG, but I had a lot in my second. I think it may have been the most disgusting thing I've ever seen. Mine were quite uncomfortable (throbbing) during the 2nd tri, but then seemed to get better, oddly enough. Still disgusting, but not painful. Thankfully it went away after delivery. But I totally understand your self consciousness. I kind of made DH look at it- it was like I wanted some justification for being grossed out at myself. He was sweet enough not to give me any of that justification- just sort of acted like it was no big deal. But yeah. Yuck.

GC's Mama · 06-08-2011, 10:01 PM

Yeah, the other 2 times mine went away right after delivery, and I know this one will, too, but I wasn't prepared for how much bigger it got this time around. If we ever decide to go for #4, I'm afraid it'll look like I stuffed a bag of grapes inside my panties.

5lilmnkys · 06-09-2011, 07:12 AM

You are lucky it doesn't cause you much pain! This is my 4th pregnancy, never had this issue before. I went in to the dr with severe pubic pain and swelling at 20ish weeks, and was diagnosed with vv...one side worse than the other, but both sides. As my pregnancy has progressed (3 weeks to go), the pain has gotten worse. I have just learned to live with it really. I worry too during sex, that something will go wrong....but I'm still alive! lol

06-08-2011, 06:56 PM	#1
GC's Mama Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bellingham, WA Posts: 1,699 Ratings: 4 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	*Varicose veins ahem* down there (may be TMI for you)? Okay, so my 1st pregnancy, I found a tiny bump on my labia some time in the 3rd trimester. Turns out it was a varicise vein, no big deal, super tiny, midwives said not to worry. 2nd pregnancy, that area started feeling tender, and out popped a (slightly bigger than the last time) little one at 10 weeks. Didn't bug me all that much, both times it went away right after delivery. Fast forward to this pregnancy: I tried working out sooner, not spending a lot of time just standing on my feet, have been doing a lot of moderate exercise, laying on my left side. I managed to stave it off until 12 weeks, and this time it looks huge! Like a tiny cluster of peas or something. It doesn't hurt much, but I'm super self conscious about it (God bless DH for pretending not to see it when we DTD). I'm also kind of afraid to even let myself have an org* when we "do it" because if I do, that lip swells up and skeeves me out. My midwives say they're really common and that a lot of women get them and don't even know it b/c they never look in that area. But I just wonder.... Has this been a problem for anyone? And if it has, and you have more than one kid, has it been worse in subsequent pregnancies? Need some reassurance over here. __________________ Jenn, Proud CD'ing, BF'ing, BW'ing, pocket/fitteds & wool loving mama to Garrett and Owen , and currently babymooning with E3.....Claire Janine, 11/29/11. Our Team Green turned PINK!

06-08-2011, 07:03 PM	#2
jackyl08 Registered Users Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: NW Oregon Posts: 6,969 Ratings: 301 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	*Re: Varicose veins ahem* down there (may be TMI for you)?** Me! It hurts so, so, so bad! Like throbbing pain. I have just dealt with it by sitting on a heating pad, staying off my feet and when it gets really bad, taking some Tylenol. It's awful, but hopefully it will go away with delivery. __________________ Jacky, wife to Tim Mama to my little red heads, Kenzie (3) and Maverick (1) I sell Scentsy! Ask me how you can, too!

06-08-2011, 07:07 PM	#3
janabell Registered Users Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 488 Ratings: 12 Feedback: 100%	*Re: Varicose veins ahem* down there (may be TMI for you)?** OMG! I almost freaked when I saw mine down there. I have no idea when it popped up but its exactly as you described a cluster of peas. It doesnt hurt but its freaky! I hope it goes away! Just know you are not alone! __________________ Jana - Mommy to one little man (1/05) little lady 1 (11/09) and little lady 2 (7/5/11) Advocacy Tees for kids and adults! http://www.etsy.com/shop/StickyTs Use code summer10 for 10% off

06-08-2011, 08:05 PM	#5
mel281 Registered Users Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Minneapolis, MN Posts: 343 Ratings: 7 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	*Re: Varicose veins ahem* down there (may be TMI for you)?** I didn't notice any problems with my first PG, but I had a lot in my second. I think it may have been the most disgusting thing I've ever seen. Mine were quite uncomfortable (throbbing) during the 2nd tri, but then seemed to get better, oddly enough. Still disgusting, but not painful. Thankfully it went away after delivery. But I totally understand your self consciousness. I kind of made DH look at it- it was like I wanted some justification for being grossed out at myself. He was sweet enough not to give me any of that justification- just sort of acted like it was no big deal. But yeah. Yuck.

06-08-2011, 10:01 PM	#6
GC's Mama Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bellingham, WA Posts: 1,699 Ratings: 4 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	*Re: Varicose veins ahem* down there (may be TMI for you)?** Yeah, the other 2 times mine went away right after delivery, and I know this one will, too, but I wasn't prepared for how much bigger it got this time around. If we ever decide to go for #4, I'm afraid it'll look like I stuffed a bag of grapes inside my panties. __________________ Jenn, Proud CD'ing, BF'ing, BW'ing, pocket/fitteds & wool loving mama to Garrett and Owen , and currently babymooning with E3.....Claire Janine, 11/29/11. Our Team Green turned PINK!