Affairs (Physical and emotional)

[daenikoffre]

What a scumbag.. forcing you to be the one to file for the divorce. Ugh. How awful. Good luck, mama. Thinking of you. You aren't to blame here. He should have asked for a divorce lng ago before putting your whole family through all of this. What a freakin' coward.

[Alexismarie]

I'm having the same problem, I don't know whether or not he's cheating. But I'm a SAHM too, My family is not around nor are any friends. (Just moved)...any time I ask him to sit for a little and talk I'm nagging, or he just completely disregards me. He doesn't listen or spend anytime with me anymore. I sit in the house with our daughter day in and day out getting disrespected. We've went to therapy...I still go he doesn't . I never ever thought I could be in this situation. But it's extremely hard to just leave..

[Texasmom]

it sounds like he don't want to work things out that he would be happy to continue his behavior while still being married to you.

[Lolobug]

I think all couples go through rough spots BUT in order to make it through, both of you need to work together. My DH is a mute it is very difficult for him to verbalize his emotions but he tries. That's all that matters- effort and a willingness to work for the marriage.
I grew up in a divorced family and vow to never divorce without a fight. However, marriage is built on honesty and integrity. In my opinion, sounds like DH has checked out. Sorry, mama! You deserve a loving committed man, don't settle for less.