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Old 12-04-2012, 04:29 PM   #71
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Amy - I totally understand where you're coming from. All of my losses were before 8 weeks. I was sometimes the only one (aside from DH) who knew those tiny lives even existed. I have a box in my bedroom with the positive tests. It's the only thing I have that proved they were with me at all. DH also bought me a beautiful locket after my ectopic. My tattoo (being done after DD weans) will have dandelion fluff seeds to symbolize the wishes I had for those babies.

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Old 12-04-2012, 05:10 PM   #72
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Re: Possible Miscariage, need support

They said my progesterone is normal so that is a positive for it not being ectopic.
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Re: Possible Miscariage, need support

as long as you are getting your levels checked and the continue to go down then you are probably ok to just follow up with a OB. (when you find one).

I am sorry amy... I know every situation is different but my first two babies we lost early as well and it never is easy. I have a charm necklace with their due date birthstones. I didn't save my pregnancy test because at the time it was too much but I have all my tests from our sweet boy Haven this summer and his "baby" book. Every loss is a loss no matter when they occur. So sorry you couldn't keep your sweet wanted baby. Praying for grace as you walk through this difficult time.
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Re: Possible Miscariage, need support

Oh momma I am so sorry. Pamper yourself and allow yourself to grieve in whatever way helps you to heal. Hugs and prayers of comfort for you.
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Just stopping by to check on you Amy. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Re: Possible Miscariage, need support

I haven't stopped by this thread in a couple of days. SOOOO VERY SORRY AMY!!!

As far as what you said you were feeling, I completely understand. I don't have anything tangable from either one of my m/c's. I havn't ever really done anything to honor those babies, but I have thought about buying a birthstone angel for the month in which they were to be due (May '09 and June '10) and putting them in a shadow box of some sort.

I hope your body recovers quickly and you can ttc again soon!
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