Thanks, all! I really appreciate it. I'm going to experiment a bit during the daytime to see what I can figure out for tomorrow night. For tonight, I think I'm just going to sit up to nurse, because I really think if I try to nurse lying down tonight, I will probably conk out hard...
And I am really jealous of those who don't have to worry about it!
Get a Snuza monitor. You clip it onto the baby's diaper and if he stops breathing it will alarm loud like a pager! so much peace of mind
It is the only way I will sleep with my baby nursing or near me.