Ummm wwyd? - Cloth Diapers & Parenting Community

sandhillcranes · 03-01-2013, 04:06 PM

Ok i have had a lot of transactions but i wasnt sure what to do with this.

A mom has several of the same item listed for $Xppd. I told her I was interested and asked if she had feedback elsewhere. She msgd me her pp addy and her feedback info..then 3hrs later when I say sure I will take em lemme send pp in an hr. then she says ...to "avoid fees" i can send funds as personal or i can just cover the extra fees. Uhmmm

I told her i would just pass bc i dont really want to pay OVER her asking price and i dont feel comfortable sending $$ as gifted bc it offers me no protection thru pp. i hope that doesnt come off as mean or rude. The items were listed "ppd" ..was I in the wrong to say id just pass?

Fashionably Green Baby · 03-01-2013, 04:08 PM

She isn't allowed to ask you to cover fees. She needs to account for them in her asking price.

stevensmom · 03-01-2013, 04:12 PM

yes asking for the buyer to cover fees is against DS rules as well as Paypal rules.

Please let me know (via pm) who this person was so we can send a friendly reminder of the rules

sandhillcranes · 03-01-2013, 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stevensmom

yes asking for the buyer to cover fees is against DS rules as well as Paypal rules.

Please let me know (via pm) who this person was so we can send a friendly reminder of the rules

It was on facebook swap ..she has a username here but i am not sure how active she has been.

Thank u for helping

stevensmom · 03-01-2013, 04:55 PM

also...never ever ever pay personal for an item...you don't get paypal protection if you do

Fishie Kisses · 03-01-2013, 05:05 PM

It is against PAYPAL'S TOS to ask the buyer to cover fees. No chance would I ever pay as personal. And ppd means that everything is included. I would have done exactly the same as you and passed.

shortcake2386 · 03-01-2013, 05:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stevensmom

also...never ever ever pay personal for an item...you don't get paypal protection if you do

sandhillcranes · 03-01-2013, 05:33 PM

Yeah I never send as gifted but I wasnt sure if it was rude to just kinda wash my hands of the entire transaction...

I guess whatever I said wasnt rude though bc she agreed to sell for her original asking.

Thanks mamas! Love how quick everyone is

I_run_with_scissors · 03-02-2013, 06:24 AM

I would have done the same thing, not worth the risk to send it as anything other than goods

glad it worked out for you mama, i think many times people arent trying to scam or be dishonest, they just want more profit

03-01-2013, 04:06 PM	#1
sandhillcranes Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 5,804 Ratings: 263 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Ummm wwyd? Ok i have had a lot of transactions but i wasnt sure what to do with this. A mom has several of the same item listed for $Xppd. I told her I was interested and asked if she had feedback elsewhere. She msgd me her pp addy and her feedback info..then 3hrs later when I say sure I will take em lemme send pp in an hr. then she says ...to "avoid fees" i can send funds as personal or i can just cover the extra fees. Uhmmm I told her i would just pass bc i dont really want to pay OVER her asking price and i dont feel comfortable sending $$ as gifted bc it offers me no protection thru pp. i hope that doesnt come off as mean or rude. The items were listed "ppd" ..was I in the wrong to say id just pass? Advertisement __________________ I'm Tia... and I love my family so much they should pay rent in my mind If I haven't left you feedback, please pm me .

03-01-2013, 04:08 PM	#2
Fashionably Green Baby Registered Users Formerly: artistmom Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,623 Ratings: 45 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	She isn't allowed to ask you to cover fees. She needs to account for them in her asking price. __________________ The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them. Louis C.K.

03-01-2013, 04:12 PM	#3
stevensmom Administrator Squeeze your own darn cheeks Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: a little place called Home Posts: 54,033 Ratings: 446 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Ummm wwyd? yes asking for the buyer to cover fees is against DS rules as well as Paypal rules. Please let me know (via pm) who this person was so we can send a friendly reminder of the rules __________________ Erica , wife to Ben, momma to Steven11.06 Emily9.10 Matthew 8.13 Forever in my heart, always on my mind (3.09, 5.09, 12.11) Swag with me! Bing it! BabyBoyBlueBoutique

03-01-2013, 04:55 PM	#5
stevensmom Administrator Squeeze your own darn cheeks Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: a little place called Home Posts: 54,033 Ratings: 446 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Ummm wwyd? also...never ever ever pay personal for an item...you don't get paypal protection if you do __________________ Erica , wife to Ben, momma to Steven11.06 Emily9.10 Matthew 8.13 Forever in my heart, always on my mind (3.09, 5.09, 12.11) Swag with me! Bing it! BabyBoyBlueBoutique

03-01-2013, 05:05 PM	#6
Fishie Kisses Registered Users Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: SJV, CA Posts: 17,629 Ratings: 211 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Ummm wwyd? It is against PAYPAL'S TOS to ask the buyer to cover fees. No chance would I ever pay as personal. And ppd means that everything is included. I would have done exactly the same as you and passed. __________________ Tashauna~~proud wife to my trained boo-boo fixer and mama to 4 boys on earth (Jordan-01/15/08, Logan-12/16/09, Connor-05/17/11)...and finally our rainbow Jackson (11/24/13)! and two in heaven ^i^ (10wks-11/12 and 4 weeks 2/13) Try SWAGBUCKS and get paid!! I've earned over $1000 just since Jan 1, 2013!!!

03-01-2013, 05:33 PM	#8
sandhillcranes Registered Users Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 5,804 Ratings: 263 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Ummm wwyd? Yeah I never send as gifted but I wasnt sure if it was rude to just kinda wash my hands of the entire transaction... I guess whatever I said wasnt rude though bc she agreed to sell for her original asking. Thanks mamas! Love how quick everyone is __________________ I'm Tia... and I love my family so much they should pay rent in my mind If I haven't left you feedback, please pm me .

03-02-2013, 06:24 AM	#9
I_run_with_scissors Registered Users Join Date: May 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 3,222 Ratings: 57 Feedback: 100%	Re: Ummm wwyd? I would have done the same thing, not worth the risk to send it as anything other than goods glad it worked out for you mama, i think many times people arent trying to scam or be dishonest, they just want more profit __________________ Mom to boys DS1 (07/10) DS2 (10/11) DS3 (03/13) TTC #4

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