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Old 02-07-2014, 06:11 PM   #21
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Yes, this is exactly what had to happen with my MIL. Two years ago, she moved to the same area we live in. It's her favorite part of the country, and she has been talking about wanting to live around here for years. 6 months later, she's talking about moving back to where she lived before, because she's just so disappointed in DH. She thought that when she moved closer "to be near my family", she'd see him more often - she only expected it to be "two or three times a week." Um, hello! The man works almost 80 hours a week! I told her, "I live with him and I hardly see him more than 3 times a week!" She expected that I would now go and find a full-time job since she's here now and could babysit DS2, but he'd have to change his habits, of course, because she'd have to watch her TV shows. Wrong again!

Best thing that we ever did was to introduce her to a friend of ours who is near her age, shares her interest in dogs, and is retired. She has gotten MIL involved in several things at church, and it has really helped take some of the pressure off.

"change his habits" to suit her TV shows? Yikes! Glad you found a diplomatic solution.

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Old 02-16-2014, 02:09 PM   #22
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I do not get along with mine after I found out she talked about me, behind my back. But I had set the boundaries since dating. Plus my husband's family, does not call each other that much. Maybe once every 3-4 months. Which is a lot different than my side. Being hispanic, I talk to my mom 3-4 times a day, even if it is for 1 minute. There is so much "soap opera" as I call it with my husband's side of the family, that I had been stopping going to the family get together and my husband is starting to do the same.
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Old 02-16-2014, 08:49 PM   #23
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My mil is beyond pushy. She's nuts. She decided she was going to schedule a time once a week for each family to come visit her for dinner and they had to come. Errr no how about not. We've completely cut her out now and life is so much less stressful
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