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Old 04-28-2016, 11:50 PM   #1
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Home birth thread?

I am not pregnant but am already planning what I would like next time around. I think a home birth would be wonderful but I think I would need a ton of information before we were comfortable enough to proceed. In my area there have been several losses and near losses associated with home births! Where do you find the information you need for this decision?

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Old 04-29-2016, 06:23 PM   #2
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I LOVE giving birth at home. This will be our 4th homebirth (first assisted one). It is an amazing, empowering experience. Of course, I feel SO much more confident at home, so that impacts my pain tolerance a lot (I can handle more) and fear (I'm not afraid of the pain or the possibilities), but I know many women who are opposite and therefore simply do better in a hospital setting. I do think that homebirth is "healthier" for many reasons in a normal pregnancy (though we don't have any really great hospitals in my area to compare to, either), but just like anything else (choosing a hospital birth included!), you certainly need to know what you're doing and why!

I would probably take the time to look into the reasons for those complications and losses, as oftentimes it isn't BECAUSE of the homebirth, and likely would have happened in a hospital too. (hospital statistics aren't always the greatest either, we just don't hear about those as often or they are slightly "skewed"...take for example, hemmorhage- a lot of cases in hospitals are because OB's like to manually remove placentas too early. But would they call it like it is? Chances are, no.) I'd also try to connect with other women who've successfully birthed at home in your area, and get to know midwives where you live.

Read homebirth stories. Those are what got me thinking the most- yes, they are others personal experiences, but they helped me think more about the specifics of my own births and gave me a better idea of where to start my own research (as well as got me excited for the experience!). Familiarize yourself with midwifery. I LOVE learning about the "other side" of homebirth, from the midwife perspective- I think it really balances things out for me. I love the book "Heart & Hands" for this. You can also educate yourself on the emergency side (a great book for that is B.E.S.T "Birth Emergency Skills Training"), so that you can have a better idea of what can be done in situations and feel more control over it.

Education yourself on birth is never a waste and honestly, I think EVERY woman should be prepared to birth at home (unassisted, even), should it happen. Not only will it give you knowledge about home birth, but you will feel more confident and prepared no matter where you choose to have your baby.

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Old 08-29-2016, 11:54 PM   #3
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I highly suggest watching "The Business of Being Born" on Netflix or YouTube to anyone interested in home birth.
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I've had two at home, with a midwife a adore. Find out the laws in your state and look for a good midwife. Home birth is a wonderful option for babies and mamas that are low risk. Talk with your midwife about what that means and if you fall into that category. Ask her all your questions.
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I didn't feel like I needed a bunch of information to make my decision since the studies showing the safety are pretty easy to find, and I have never considered birth to be a medical event/crisis, but a natural body process.

However, what I have been doing is interviewing several midwives. It's very important to find out the midwives statistics as well as the OBs....what is their transfer rate, how many births have they attended, how long have they been doing it, what was their last transfer for, how do they handle shoulder dystocia....etc...and it's important to find someone that both you and your husband are comfortable with and that you trust.
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I really want to do a home birth but DH is not really into it. I've settled for a hospital birth again.
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I am hoping to have a home birth this time around <3
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I am hoping to have a home birth this time around <3
Would this be your first home birth?
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Would this be your first home birth?
Yes I am tired of being told what I can and canít do at the hospital.
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I hope that works out for you! I've had three in the hospital and three at home, and aside from the difference in birth experiences (which is huge) I think recovering at home is so much nicer! I just don't like being in the hospital at all, especially when it's not really necessary. Good luck with your pregnancy and birth!
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