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Old 04-02-2014, 06:00 AM   #11
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My little was born still three years ago today, at 37 1/2 weeks. Happy birthday my sweet. I miss you every moment of every day. My SO doesn't understand why I like to celebrate his birthday, but I can't imagine not. He is my first child. My first pregnancy. My child. My sweet little angel. My SO says it's was the worst day of his life, and for me too... However, there was some joy in meeting my first child. Even if I quickly had to say goodbye. Today will be a long day.
I'm so sorry for your loss....no matter how long ago.... Our angel baby was born still on 10/22/10....we celebrate that day every year....if it falls on a weekend, we go to a pumpkin patch...and, we go to dinner (it has always been at the Olive Garden) and we wrote messages on balloons and them send them to Heaven.

As previously said, everyone celebrates differently. I hope your SO will come to realize what the celebration means to you <3

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Old 04-02-2014, 07:12 AM   #12
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I'm so sorry. We celebrate our stillborn son's birthday every year too. He would be 6 on the 13th of this month. ((hugs)) Stillborn, still born, still loved.
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Old 04-03-2014, 09:10 AM   #14
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Hugs mama. They are forever in our hearts and on our minds.
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Re: Today my son would have been three years old.

So sorry for your loss. Do what feels right to you to honor your little one and yourself.

I light a candle for my sweet spirit baby every year. I'm the only one in the family who remembers either her due date or her passing date, but I've come to terms with that. Maybe their way of coping with the loss is to just not pin it to any one day, but I need something to mark those moments. Birth - even if you don't get to keep your baby - is an enormous transition for a woman, and I don't think there's a guy on the planet that will ever really understand that.
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Hugs mama! and Happy Birthday dear little one!
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