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Old 11-19-2014, 07:53 PM   #1
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Old 11-25-2014, 07:29 AM   #2
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Hugs. I don't have any advice, but my husband travels a lot and it's not that bad but I don't have five children. You only know hats best for you and your family. Talk to you bf and see what he has to say.. And tell him how you feel.
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Old 11-25-2014, 08:34 AM   #3
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Well. You say you have a 3 y/o and his youngest is 22...so I'm guessing this is a fairly new relationship...which I would be looking at seriously. If YOU want a baby...YOU should do it. IMO your not married just dating? Maybe I misread but it doesn't sound like your goals are at all the same? Hugs...I hope you can find peace.
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Old 11-26-2014, 10:56 PM   #4
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Definitely talk to him about it. And if you want another child, do you mean you want to be pregnant or you want to raise a child? What's his stance on adoption and how do you feel about it?

But yeah, it sounds like a young relationship. If having another child is something you need to do, then you should give him the option of playing a part in it but it sounds like something that is going to happen. As a woman, you have a limited number of fertile years, and you can't get those back.
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Old 11-28-2014, 12:45 AM   #5
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Just follow your heart . It always knows what is right for u
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Old 11-28-2014, 06:06 AM   #6
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Hugs.

This seems like quite a dilemma.

Can I ask how old are you? You can just give a round about age --early 30s, early 40s. I see you have a 17 year old and your bf is 12 years older than you. I'm just trying to place where in life you might be, whereas your bf might be in a completely different stage and mindset. After a certain age, people, in general, seem to be more set in their ways and decisions, so it might be something you want to ask yourself. Is it something you can live with? Can you focus your mind on the ones you have and let the other possibilities go?
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