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Old 10-17-2012, 11:44 AM   #11
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Make him watch 16 and pregnant. Find the worst ones.

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Old 10-17-2012, 11:47 AM   #12
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When I was in high school the school musical was Cinderella. A senior girl played Cinderella and a freshman boy played the prince. They ended up dating IRL for like 2 years. They seemed to have a healthy formal relationship that naturally ran its course when she got more involved in college life and all that. I think you're handling it correctly. Be cautious but don't automatically write her off as a devil woman taking your baby from you. She might just really like him.
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Old 10-17-2012, 11:48 AM   #13
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Make him watch 16 and pregnant. Find the worst ones.
and yeah that . Honestly STDs scare me way worse than pregnancy. Show him some graphic pics and explain that many of them are for life. That might get him to always wear a condom.
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Old 10-17-2012, 11:50 AM   #14
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Old 10-17-2012, 11:55 AM   #15
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We have talked about STDs and condoms. I hope his little brothers are good enough birth control. He sees what we have to do and give up. I hope he really understands. We are very honest about sex here. We know it feels good, we know he wants to do it, we know he is curious, but we also discuss real reprocussions. What it means to get an STD or have a baby.

I just hope she is mature enough to just really like my son and want a life full of many wonderful things and not just babies as some girls are. I know it sounds awful, but I knew girls who just wanted babies and worked hard to find a good boy to get them from.
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Old 10-17-2012, 11:56 AM   #16
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Old 10-17-2012, 05:06 PM   #17
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Have you talked to the girl about birth control? Is she on the pill? I would go to the girls parents and start talking about what if's and how they want to prevent them.
You can't keep them from having sex. If they want to they will find a way. Sucks, but that's the truth.
I wonder why she wants to date someone younger. That is odd. Usually a 17.5 yr old girl has their sights on someone close to their age or a college boy.
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What is going to happen in 6 mos when she turns 18? A parents consent will not overide state law and make an illegal act, legal. What is the age of consent in your state?
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I started dating my husband when he was 19. ...I was 23! Not all older girls are scary!
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Old 10-18-2012, 05:04 AM   #20
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I started dating my husband when he was 19. ...I was 23! Not all older girls are scary!
But you were already adults. He is only 15. I have an almost 14yo son, I would feel exactly the same. How long have they been dating?
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