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jbug_4 · 11-25-2012, 04:28 PM

Her grandma bear claws came out today. She is so quiet and meek. She never stands up for herself. She surprised me today. In the 3 years since dd was diagnosed with a peanut allergy she only recently stood up to her dh- telling him he was not allowed to have peanut stuff when dd was there. Of course dd just moved up from a class 4 to a class 6 so maybe that has something to do with it. Anyway, we went to a baby shower today for dh's cousin. It was all his family and we know everybody. In planning the hostess was thinking about serving some sort of nutty cracker thing but mil's sister (hostess' mil) reminded her dd was coming so no nuts. Don't know if that created an issue- i didn't even know dd's allergy even come up until after we left the shower. I had no idea it had been brought up ahead of time. Anyway, we get there and they have favors of little pots with reese cups in them. I saw them and wasn't going to say anything. They were take home favors and most people wouldn't even touch them until leaving. DD was going to be down stairs playing and the kids were not to eat anything at all down there. I went to the bathroom and when i cam back my mil was standing in front the favors. She said - do you see those? i said yes and before I could say anything else she was talking to the hostess (her nephew's wife). She told her dd has a severe peanut allergy could they put the favors away and hand them out as everyone left. I was completely shocked. It is so unlike her to speak up. She usually just sits quietly and worries. I would probably be embarrassed if everybody there hadn't been family. Most of whom are very familiar with dd's allergy. But some of them do forget- I think that is what threw mil over the edge, her elderly aunt was opening one to eat them while I was in the bathroom. I don't usually ask for anything special to be done at gatherings- all though this is the first time in 3 years that we have been to a gathering other then our family Christmas were peanut stuff was even present. I was kind of surprised to see the reese's cups. We have been to all kinds of showers and food gatherings in the last 3 years this was the first time there was something peanut. We normally feed her on the way anyway because of her dairy sensitivity and then she will eat chips, raw veggies or fruit at the gatherings.

And mil was actually mad that the reese cups were even there since she knows the hostess was reminded. Its kind of funny. Even though its not something I would have done I am happy that Grandma bear claws came out. I know she would do almost anything for them, but I didn't know she had that in her. She is so shy.

qsefthuko · 11-25-2012, 04:48 PM

Go Gramma!!

corinne76 · 11-25-2012, 05:06 PM

Woohoo. I love this

AngelTV83 · 11-25-2012, 05:25 PM

Good job grandma!

pumkinsmommy · 11-25-2012, 07:35 PM

Good job!!

RainandRedemption · 11-25-2012, 07:59 PM

That's awesome!!

loveramongstars · 11-25-2012, 10:25 PM

Proud grandma!

Sent from my Inspire. Hope everything makes sense!

CaliRoll · 11-25-2012, 10:52 PM

Way to go Grandma!!!

Farafonov · 11-26-2012, 10:09 AM

Go Grandma!!!

11-25-2012, 04:28 PM	#1
jbug_4 Registered Users Join Date: May 2011 Location: Chase, MI Posts: 5,991 Ratings: 1 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Proud of mil Her grandma bear claws came out today. She is so quiet and meek. She never stands up for herself. She surprised me today. In the 3 years since dd was diagnosed with a peanut allergy she only recently stood up to her dh- telling him he was not allowed to have peanut stuff when dd was there. Of course dd just moved up from a class 4 to a class 6 so maybe that has something to do with it. Anyway, we went to a baby shower today for dh's cousin. It was all his family and we know everybody. In planning the hostess was thinking about serving some sort of nutty cracker thing but mil's sister (hostess' mil) reminded her dd was coming so no nuts. Don't know if that created an issue- i didn't even know dd's allergy even come up until after we left the shower. I had no idea it had been brought up ahead of time. Anyway, we get there and they have favors of little pots with reese cups in them. I saw them and wasn't going to say anything. They were take home favors and most people wouldn't even touch them until leaving. DD was going to be down stairs playing and the kids were not to eat anything at all down there. I went to the bathroom and when i cam back my mil was standing in front the favors. She said - do you see those? i said yes and before I could say anything else she was talking to the hostess (her nephew's wife). She told her dd has a severe peanut allergy could they put the favors away and hand them out as everyone left. I was completely shocked. It is so unlike her to speak up. She usually just sits quietly and worries. I would probably be embarrassed if everybody there hadn't been family. Most of whom are very familiar with dd's allergy. But some of them do forget- I think that is what threw mil over the edge, her elderly aunt was opening one to eat them while I was in the bathroom. I don't usually ask for anything special to be done at gatherings- all though this is the first time in 3 years that we have been to a gathering other then our family Christmas were peanut stuff was even present. I was kind of surprised to see the reese's cups. We have been to all kinds of showers and food gatherings in the last 3 years this was the first time there was something peanut. We normally feed her on the way anyway because of her dairy sensitivity and then she will eat chips, raw veggies or fruit at the gatherings. And mil was actually mad that the reese cups were even there since she knows the hostess was reminded. Its kind of funny. Even though its not something I would have done I am happy that Grandma bear claws came out. I know she would do almost anything for them, but I didn't know she had that in her. She is so shy. __________________ SAHM to LR 7/26/07 and IHM 10/6/10, wife to a self proclaimed genius, ex-navy guy. Going places and doing things that I always dreamed of, but never imagined I would.

11-25-2012, 04:48 PM	#2
qsefthuko Registered Users Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 13,171 Ratings: 85 Feedback: 100%	Re: Proud of mil Go Gramma!! __________________

11-25-2012, 05:06 PM	#3
corinne76 Registered Users Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Hawaii Posts: 8,980 Ratings: 114 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Woohoo. I love this __________________ Wife to DH and mommy to DD (12/07) and DS (2/11)

11-25-2012, 05:25 PM	#4
AngelTV83 Registered Users Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 990 Ratings: 6 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Good job grandma! __________________ ~Angela~ mommy to Audrey 12/8/06 wife to Adam 7/22/2005 Due May 2013

11-25-2012, 07:35 PM	#5
pumkinsmommy Registered Users Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 6,471 Ratings: 182 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: Proud of mil Good job!! __________________ Theresa - sahm to sweet, baby(big girl ) Caroline who was born on 1-23-07 after her mommy dreamed of her for a lifetime

11-25-2012, 10:25 PM	#7
loveramongstars Registered Users Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 603	Proud grandma! Sent from my Inspire. Hope everything makes sense! __________________ Bonita - Loving, Converse Wearing, Hippie College Student, Now Back in Texas My Cheshire (Samson) Feb 2013 Lover Among Stars, a blog about my journey as a single mom with my little one.