Devastated

[bigmamakelsey]

I'm so sorry mama

[TinaDeanette]

I'm sorry

[ingrid5699]

I'm so sorry. ((((Hugs))))

Take your time to heal.

[katykat]

Now I'm getting angry. Today my neighbor (who I love dearly and am good friends with) told me that I need to get over it and get on with my life. Can I please have more than a week to mourn the loss of my child? Am I asking too much?! Starting to ask "why me" and wonder if anything I did could have caused this. My acupuncturist told me that I needed to stop nursing immediately when I told her I was pregnant. I didn't. She literally told me that it was a "horrible plan" to keep nursing, and it "wasn't a risk she'd be willing to take". So basically in her eyes I chose to nurse and miscarry. Can't ever go back there- I already feel bad enough, don't need a provider blaming me for my loss. I'm weaning now b/c I will not do anything that will allow me to blame myself should I miscarry again. Oh, and I'm terrified that either I'm not going to be able to conceive again or if I do that I will miscarry again. Sigh. This just sucks any way you look at it.

[babyfever2012]

[TinaDeanette]

Huge hugs for you! I had convinced myself that taking Aleve is what caused my baby to die. But in reality, it probably wasn't. It's so hard to not blame yourself but please don't. Plenty of mamas nurse while pregnant and don't miscarry.

take as much time to grieve as YOU need. We are all here for you and some have BTDT so we know how it is. I had my sweet tiny angel baby boy in July and I still cry at night, not all but some. Losing a future with someone you wanted so badly is heartbreaking and a week just isn't enough time to 'get over it' and anyways, you'll never get over it. You'll just learn to 'deal' with it. try to ignore the hurtful comments you receive, I honestly don't think people do it on purpose. They just don't know 'what' to say.

[j+csmama]

I'm so very sorry. Hugs mama