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Old 12-14-2012, 07:32 PM   #21
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Wow, just wow!! Anything can happen if the SW wants it. A friend supervising?? Sheesh. Why do they bother removing in the first place? (sorry, I'm pretty dark today.)
And I agree with your original post. I had a he** of a day with SWs today, and after this placement goes home, I think we're done. Total lack of support, appreciation, and respect.

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Old 12-14-2012, 07:33 PM   #22
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Wow, just wow!! Anything can happen if the SW wants it. A friend supervising?? Sheesh. Why do they bother removing in the first place? (sorry, I'm pretty dark today.)
And I agree with your original post. I had a he** of a day with SWs today, and after this placement goes home, I think we're done. Total lack of support, appreciation, and respect.
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Old 12-15-2012, 10:15 AM   #23
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I asked for a copy of the court order and she said she would get it to me. I haven't seen it yet...
Can you say "no court order, no visit"?
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Old 12-16-2012, 08:04 AM   #24
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I only had one case where it was someone other than a CPS employee supervising. It was the grandparents and where I think mom's mom let things slide, I think the other grandparents were stricter. Even with that, I trusted them and really, the bparents were fine too. They were addicts but were clean during the time I had the baby so I didn't have major safety concerns at the time.

I think this is totally wrong if the child is no where reunification. What's the point of foster care then?
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Old 12-16-2012, 12:22 PM   #25
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Ours were supervised by bio mom's mother, who lied for her constantly. It was ridiculous.
Yes we had one like this too. Ridiculous.
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