So nervous for tomorrow :/ - Cloth Diapers & Parenting Community

swrlgrl105 · 12-10-2012, 10:57 AM

As I posted about in other threads... I am really nervous.

I went in last Wedneday for my viability ultrasound. We did a FET (Frozen embryo transfer) so I know I was supposed to be 6w3d. The baby measured at 6w0d and they couldnt yet find a heartbeat.

I have been a nervous wreck since. I go back tomorrow to hopefully see my baby's heartbeat and some growth, but Im terrified I wont see it.

Over the weekend I was exhausted and needed 2 naps a day pretty much. With DS, I only felt a little green here and there and its the same way with this one... I dont really get M/S. My boobs are still sore and I have that warm super mild cramps that just feels like growth... and I have heartburn.

So Im hoping all of that is a good sign and everything will be ok tomorrow.

When they did my labs last week, my beta was at 9708 and progesterone was fine, so the Dr wasnt concerned at all.

Is it normal for an IVF baby to still measure a little behind and if so, still to early to see the flicker of the heart beat??? Tomorrow cant come soon enough but at the same time Im so scared I will get bad news

snugglesnsunshine · 12-10-2012, 11:10 AM

I have read that anything before 7 weeks can be iffy on an u/s. I am currently in the waiting room at dr. And on pins and needles myself.
I'll be thinking of you and pray you see a healthy bean! Try to think happy thoughts!

swrlgrl105 · 12-10-2012, 11:22 AM

Thank you

I have read that too but its hard not to freak out when its you ya know? good luck at your u/s!

mcpforever · 12-10-2012, 11:34 AM

I'm on pins and needles with just a "regular" pregnancy. I also tend to overanalyze and would be worrying the same way you are!

Best thing I can do is keep myself busy and try not to think about it too much.

MadeofStarStuff · 12-10-2012, 11:56 AM

Hoping both of you have wonderful ultrasound results. I completely understand the terror. I had an ectopic pregnancy 8 years ago and am always terrified my first ultrasound will show the embryo in the tube and not my uterus. Fingers crossed for you guys!

snugglesnsunshine · 12-10-2012, 03:26 PM

Appt. went great. Heartbeat was 149. Baby measured 7 weeks 6 days.

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Cant wait to hear good news from you swrlgrl

swrlgrl105 · 12-11-2012, 10:10 AM

baby stopped growing at 6 weeks... still no heartbeat..its over.. the Dr said it could take up to a month for my hormone #s to fall enough to pass it

I feel like Im in hell

themrshunt · 12-11-2012, 10:11 AM

I'm so sorry!

prayers and hugs!

mcpforever · 12-11-2012, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by swrlgrl105

baby stopped growing at 6 weeks... still no heartbeat..its over.. the Dr said it could take up to a month for my hormone #s to fall enough to pass it

I feel like Im in hell

I am so so sorry.

Are you ok with waiting for things to play out naturally?

cowangel · 12-11-2012, 01:46 PM

Sorry for your loss and that it can take so long...I 2nd pp comments are you ok with things playing out naturally? Would it help you if they gave you something to help your body pass everything more quickly? Prayers for a quick recovery (as quick as can be) and a healthy pregnancy in your very near future...

12-10-2012, 10:57 AM	#1
swrlgrl105 Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 2,915 Ratings: 66 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	So nervous for tomorrow :/ As I posted about in other threads... I am really nervous. I went in last Wedneday for my viability ultrasound. We did a FET (Frozen embryo transfer) so I know I was supposed to be 6w3d. The baby measured at 6w0d and they couldnt yet find a heartbeat. I have been a nervous wreck since. I go back tomorrow to hopefully see my baby's heartbeat and some growth, but Im terrified I wont see it. Over the weekend I was exhausted and needed 2 naps a day pretty much. With DS, I only felt a little green here and there and its the same way with this one... I dont really get M/S. My boobs are still sore and I have that warm super mild cramps that just feels like growth... and I have heartburn. So Im hoping all of that is a good sign and everything will be ok tomorrow. When they did my labs last week, my beta was at 9708 and progesterone was fine, so the Dr wasnt concerned at all. Is it normal for an IVF baby to still measure a little behind and if so, still to early to see the flicker of the heart beat??? Tomorrow cant come soon enough but at the same time Im so scared I will get bad news __________________ ~Cristina - wife to my best friend R , and Mommy to Eli (11/10) .... cautiously expecting our Rainbow baby in January 2014!!

12-10-2012, 11:10 AM	#2
snugglesnsunshine Registered Users Formerly: lovinmomma24 Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,061 Ratings: 68 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	I have read that anything before 7 weeks can be iffy on an u/s. I am currently in the waiting room at dr. And on pins and needles myself. I'll be thinking of you and pray you see a healthy bean! Try to think happy thoughts! __________________ Homeschooling Momma to 19 yo DD, 16yo DS , 13 yo DD, 5yoDD,4 yo DD, 1 yo DD , 1 month old DD and 6 angels I'll get to see in Heaven one day.

12-10-2012, 11:22 AM	#3
swrlgrl105 Registered Users Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 2,915 Ratings: 66 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: So nervous for tomorrow :/ Thank you I have read that too but its hard not to freak out when its you ya know? good luck at your u/s! __________________ ~Cristina - wife to my best friend R , and Mommy to Eli (11/10) .... cautiously expecting our Rainbow baby in January 2014!!

12-10-2012, 11:34 AM	#4
mcpforever Registered Users Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Bama Posts: 11,624 Ratings: 37 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: So nervous for tomorrow :/ I'm on pins and needles with just a "regular" pregnancy. I also tend to overanalyze and would be worrying the same way you are! Best thing I can do is keep myself busy and try not to think about it too much. __________________ Melissa-Wife, mother to DS 4/02 and DD 4/07, DS 7/08 DD 7/13 ISO: my lost shaker of salt

12-10-2012, 11:56 AM	#5
MadeofStarStuff Registered Users Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 2,217 Ratings: 79 Feedback: 100%	Hoping both of you have wonderful ultrasound results. I completely understand the terror. I had an ectopic pregnancy 8 years ago and am always terrified my first ultrasound will show the embryo in the tube and not my uterus. Fingers crossed for you guys! __________________ Mom of 3 and happily married. Visit my blog, Facebook page or Instagram for thrifty ideas and recipes and ways to upcycle the items you already have. I also create and sell embroidered hoop wall art and pendants. Come visit my shop.